Hey Guys!
My name is Dev and today I am going to give you a new perspective about specialness.
First let’s talk about perspective. Perspective means the way in which you see the world. For example, how we see the leaf on a tree differs form person to person. For normal eyes it would be seen as normal leaf. But artists will see this sight whole differently and can see something else like some pattern. Also how you see the world depends on your thought process. That is why we have to see the world with optimistic eyes. If we have a positive mindset, we will be able to find something beautiful in most ugly things. This is the power of having a positive perspective.
We all think of the scenarios where we all the centre of attention and we wish that it all goes amazing. Honestly speaking we all want to be special. Many times we think that if we had all the things we want then we would achieve heights of success. But in reality we don’t get what we want. Instead we get what we deserve. So welcome to reality. We all want to be special by having things, by becoming centre of attention and by becoming the master of perfect dialogue at perfect time.
But you don’t become special by these things. After a few time you will not feel special because of that thing. Also you will gain little confidence which does not stay for a long time. So if you think that you are special right now then remove this thought immediately.
Also if you think that if you will do this then you will become special then you are one of the most stupid person on earth. You are not special when people laughed at your joke or you got more likes on social media. Remember we see only the happy lives of people on social media. In reality we don’t know if they are living a grand life which they are showing on social media. I am not against this but whenever you see something like this then don’t compare yourself with them as you will always feel bad. Here I would like to quote Emerson. He says “Every man I meet is my Superior in some way, in that I learn from him.”
Specialness is earned. When you achieve something your self belief increases and you believe that you are capable of something. Well the reality is that nobody thinks that they are incapable. If one would thought that he is incapable of something then he is the person who is ideal. But ideal doesn’t exists. The badge of specialness is earned by achieving things that have added a great value to your life. Any achievement you earn dictates your dedication, hard work and focus towards it. If you achieved it then it means that you have created habits around it and have self disciplined yourself. Well this here is the real perspective of specialness.
If you need somebody to tell you that you are special then my friend you are not special. You depend on the world to make you special .You have to become self reliant about becoming special. This will save you time in pleasing people and feeling sad when you fail. Whatever you do, do it for yourself and not for someone who don’t even care if you win or lose.
When you achieve something you think was impossible, you gain some amount of self belief. This is when you truly become special in your own life. Once a wise person told me that if you had cheated in accomplishing something the you will not be able to tell yourself that you have achieved something. Even you had achieved heights of success with cheating then you will not feel special about yourself and you will be filled with self hatred.
To conclude I would say that stop believing that you are special without achieving something. Instead achieve something and feel proud about yourself. You can close your eyes and ask yourself, Why are you special?, What have you achieved? to get a clear answer. I hope I have changed your perspective towards specialness.
Thank you for reading!
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